by Savneet Bedi | Jan 4, 2021 | Blog
If you were to give a gift to someone and they just looked at it and tossed it aside without saying thanks, would you be inclined to give them another?
Of course not… 🤷🏻♀️
➡️ The universe also responds just as you do, on a much grander scale. It bestows gifts🎁 where they’re most appreciated. These gifts can come in various shapes and forms of pleasure, support and happiness.
If you are not grateful for what you’ve been given then why would the universe want to give you more?🤔
🔹 “The hardest arithmetic to master is that which enables us to count our blessings” – Eric Hoffer 🔹
I’m often asked, What is Gratitude?
It is a prayer of thanks 🙏🏻, where you recognize the perfection of what is and truly thankful for what has already been given, rather than praying to God and saying “Oh! Things are very bad please fix it!”
To those who are grateful, more gifts are given, unlike those who are ungrateful. 🎁
Nothing has ever happened nor can happen which is not a gift or a blessing, but it’s difficult to be thankful until you find the hidden benefit in what may seem at first to be a negative event.
May you have an enriching week ahead 💡
by Savneet Bedi | Dec 28, 2020 | Blog
When we share our dream with people, we experience varied kinds of response:
🔹 Some will welcome our dreams with bigger visions, more excitement, pushing us to work towards the same. 🎯 and encourage us to set the bar even higher for ourselves✈️.
🔸 While some may ridicule our vision or lovingly manipulate us into following their footsteps, by listing down all the possible facts on why the idea won’t work.
Ever wondered why two different responses to the same vision?🤔
Each individual view’s another’s goal from the perspective of their own ambition and goals for life❕
🔹The one’s who motivate us are individuals who have high ambition for themselves and others.
🔸Those who ridicule us cannot be blamed solely because they have a limited vision for themselves. Their life is governed by fear of failure in the past or future and therefore, believe life should be lead in a specific, monotonous way.
It is often the second kinds of reactions that influence us to doubt ourselves and build hesitation to pursue our vision.
So, be mindful 🤔of whom you choose to share your dream with and don’t let others’ opinions stop you from taking the first step in your journey. 🌈
May you have an enriching week ahead 💡
by Savneet | Nov 12, 2020 | Blog
In my 20 years of marriage, I can find several instances where I have put my husband, kids and my in-laws’ needs above mine. Did it make me happy?
To tell you honestly, I built resentment towards them, anger towards myself and felt like a victim, who had given so much with no returns.
Sometimes I found myself keeping a balance sheet consciously or unconsciously, of the give and take happening in the relationships. I can confidently say, it’s not a good place to be in.
I felt trapped in the cycle of self-defeating thoughts, guilt and shame for expecting others to appreciate and acknowledge my self-sacrifice. To overcome this, I found myself giving into others’ demands, thinking it would be a place of nirvana.
In reality, grudgingly accepting and tolerating every ones preferences and sacrificing to their desires, left me with a realization that:
“Sacrifice breeds resentment.”
What I learnt from my experiences and my Mentor Dr. John DeMartini is that unwilling sacrifice, tolerance or acceptance isn’t required for fulfilling relationships.
The key to a happily married life is an open-hearted appreciation for others and love for who we and our partners are. When we allow each other to express themselves freely without any judgements, helping our partners find what they love most, in turn, helps you achieve what we love most.
