For most people qualities like honesty, integrity and religious beliefs are values.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83d\udd39They are not your PERSONAL values, since these values have been imposed on you through society idealism or external authority, who project the way \ud83d\udc49\u201cyou should\u201d, \u201cyou ought to\u201d or \u201cyou have to\u201d behave, to be socially acceptable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Examples of \u201csocial Idealism\u201d statements:
\u25aa\ufe0fYou should be kind and honest.
\u25aa\ufe0fYou have to be a giver, rather than a taker.
\u25aa\ufe0fYou ought to put your in-laws and family needs above yours.
\u25aa\ufe0fYou should be educated, employed, or married.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83d\udd39The difference is PERSONAL values are your internal compass\ud83e\udded or your true north star\u2b50 pointing towards activities, people, and places that make you feel fulfilled and nourished. These personal values are as unique to you as your fingerprints \ud83d\udd90\ud83c\udffband your \ud83d\udc41\ufe0f\u200d\ud83d\udde8\ufe0fretinal pattern.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
No outside authority like a parent, teacher, religious figure can define your values.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Only you can look inside your heart and soul\u2764\ufe0f and discover, what is truly most important to you and what you would want to be known for.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For example :
\u25aa\ufe0fIf you value spending time, caring, and nurturing for your family, then you would want to be known as an amazing mother\ud83d\udc68\u200d\ud83d\udc69\u200d\ud83d\udc67\u200d\ud83d\udc66 or a homemaker.
\u25aa\ufe0fIf You may enjoy \ud83c\udfa8 painting or playing basketball\u26f9\ufe0f , you would want to be known as a painter\/ basketball player.
\u25aa\ufe0fIf you enjoy establishing a business or \ud83d\udcb0creating wealth, then you would want to be known as an entrepreneur or a wealth builder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Therefore, our identity, decisions, and actions are all based on our values or things most important to us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cWe all want to be loved and appreciated for who we are and who we are is an expression of our highest priorities\u201d
Dr. John Demartini<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
For most people qualities like honesty, integrity and religious beliefs are values. \ud83d\udd39They are not your PERSONAL values, since these values have been imposed on you through society idealism or external authority, who project the way \ud83d\udc49\u201cyou should\u201d, \u201cyou ought to\u201d or \u201cyou have to\u201d behave, to be socially acceptable. Examples of \u201csocial Idealism\u201d statements:\u25aa\ufe0fYou […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":494,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"off","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[17,16,18,13,15],"class_list":["post-493","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","tag-coaching","tag-personal","tag-priority","tag-relationship","tag-values"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/savneetbedi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/Blog_Values_Building-Blocks-scaled.jpg?fit=2560%2C1707&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_likes_enabled":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/savneetbedi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/493","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/savneetbedi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/savneetbedi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/savneetbedi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/savneetbedi.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=493"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/savneetbedi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/493\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/savneetbedi.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/494"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/savneetbedi.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=493"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/savneetbedi.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=493"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/savneetbedi.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=493"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}